Enter urges that we enter and live who we actually are, and not as we imagine or would like ourselves to be or to act, because otherwise we are living a lie which results in squandering this one opportunity we have to be fully conscious and alive. By living that we actually are, we constitute a self that has not been tamed, starved, tricked or cheated into being nice, good, obedient or seeming-happy. A self that is grounded, where negative, shadow, and sometimes horrible aspects have been recognised, lived (not necessarily acted out) and thereby integrated, and out of which, hopefully, a whole, creative, nuanced self is born which brings freedom, depth, gratitude, joy, grief and responsibility.
